young african businessman with coffee and mobile phone at window in morning

Monday morning, 10am, I was on my way to the bank, when my phone rang. It was Diji. I hit the receive button, and the phone went dead, again. I cussed under my breath. It was the third time that day and it had been happening almost daily for about a month.

The phone would randomly switch off, sometimes during important conversations, and often I would come upon it already lying dead, in my pocket or wherever I left it. I get a lot of business calls on the phone and a phone with a reckless mind is not good for business, but I decided I would hang on till I can buy a new high-end phone. Don’t judge me, I’ll rather have an epileptic top-end phone than be caught pants down with a cheap replacement phone.

When the phone trouble started, I concluded the battery had gone bad, so I got a ‘genuine replacement battery’ as declared by the guys at ‘Computer Village’, a popular street market, thirty minutes away from my house. It wasn’t a (genuine) battery problem; took less than a day to figure that out. I went back to the phone shop, and the guys were confident, this time, it was a problem with the ‘phone panel’ which I would need to replace.

Few minutes after I had said, “Okay, let’s do it”, I walked out of the shop with my phone, unfixed. Those godless guys wanted me to part with a third of the original cost of my phone, for ‘a new panel’. I concluded I had to get a new phone.


Last Monday after the phone went dead, I followed the routine fix of simply switching the phone on. Seconds after I did, Diji called again.

“Guy, what’s wrong with your phone?”

“Network oh!” I lied.

“…Guy, a beg I need some beautiful logo designs”

Diji had started a new business in a nice area of town. He said it was an electronics store. “Guy, abeg help me design very nice logos for my company” he said. He wanted a logo for his store. I told him it would cost him 120,000 naira but Diji slapped me on the face with a cacophonous reaction from the other end.

“Dele! 120 ‘kay’ for logos?” he demanded.

“Of course” I replied calmly, deliberately taking no offence.

Then he started reeling out 101 reasons it was unthinkable that I wanted him to pay for the service he requested. He talked it being ‘just a little favour’. He mentioned how we’ve been friends from secondary school, and friends do ‘things’ for each other. He described how his new business  gulped a lot of money and how I would only need my computer to do the design, without any need to procure ‘raw materials’.

I tried really hard to remain calm as I responded, reminding him it’s what I do for a living and it had taken years of dedication, practise and training to be able to do what he wants me to do. I asked him how he expected me to pay my bills, grow my business or save for design school if nobody wants to pay for my work. Diji wasn’t listening though; He only kept on with a nicely blended cocktail of blackmail and flattery.

“Okay, I will do it” I said, caving in.

Diji was excited and he heaped on a flurry of flattery.

“It’s fine Diji. That’s what friends are for.”

He laughed in agreement.

“So, can I get the logos later today?”

I felt like conking him through the phone.

“Do you think I’ll just get home, press a few buttons on my keyboard and a logo will jump out?”

He laughed. “No man, but it’s kind of urgent, I need to proceed with the sign writers.”

“Listen Diji” I said firmly, “It’s a process that takes time and effort. I would need to have a conversation with you about your business, and  your brand.  I’ll need to understand your industry, your audience, your competition, and so many other things. After that, I would proceed with more researches based on the information gathered, and then I can start making sketches, which would have to go through a few stages of refinement, and that’s just for the logo, it doesn’t include developing the whole identity of your business yet… so, no! you cannot get the logos today, or this week”

Diji laughed, slightly embarrassed.

“Okay, okay, no vex, so when will we meet to discuss?

I will come to your business, tomorrow morning” I responded.

“Thanks paddy mi, you be my guy, you are the boss!”

I smiled. I was about to say “it’s enough Diji, I’ll see you tomorrow”, but my phone shut me up, again.

“Stupid phone, your days are numbered” I muttered.


An hour later, on my way from the bank, I decided to go see Diji. He was happy I came earlier than promised, and was eager for us to start discussing the logo designs. His new store was quite impressive and I could see that he had put a lot of planning into it. It was a tastefully designed store and everything looked really elegant.

I told him I wanted to have a quick look around first. He didn’t object and was proud to give me a personal tour. I walked towards the electronics corner with Diji beside me as one of his sales attendants followed us.

“Nice stock you’ve got here bro” I said, stopping before a wide display glass that had a range of the latest smartphones in the market.

“Yeah, yeah”, he responded proudly.

I looked towards his attendant who was standing reverently beside us. I pointed to an HTC M8 sitting elegantly behind the display.

“Please can I have a look at that?”

The young man unlocked the glass cabinet and handed me the phone.

“Do you know that phone has three cameras? Diji declared.

“Really?” I enquired curiously, as I caressed the beautiful phone in my palm.

“Oh yes, it does. There’s a front facing one, a rear camera, and the third one is for capturing depth of field…”

“Really! ” I was honestly impressed and for a while began to consider owning the phone.

“Diji, dash me this small phone abeg, make me sef use big phone.” I said cheekily.

Diji laughed out loud.

Ole! Thief!”

“Make I give you 100,000 naira phone for free?”

“Carry am dey go now”, he said sarcastically, slapping me playfully on the back.

“You want to kill my business before it even starts?” he added.

I wasn’t laughing. He noticed this, and his laughter quickly shrunk into a puzzled gaze.

“So you can’t give me a 100,000 naira phone for free, but you expect me to make 120,000 naira worth of designs for you, gratis, abi?”

Diji was tongue-tied as he realised I had tricked him. The attendant began to step away, not wanting to witness his boss being humiliated by his friend.

I walked towards the checkout, leaving Diji standing there, stroking his stub and smiling stupidly. I had been considering the HTC M8 anyway, I decided that was the best time to buy it.

Few minutes after, I was the proud owner of a new phone.

“Diji, If you still need your logos, call me on my new phone” I said, grinning triumphantly as I walked out of the store.

Leave a Comment!

This Post Has 95 Comments
  1. I just want to mention I am just all new to blogs and certainly liked this blog. Most likely I’m going to bookmark your blog post . You surely have very good posts. Thanks a bunch for sharing your blog site.

  2. I like the helpful information you provide in your articles.
    I will bookmark your weblog and check again here frequently.

    I’m quite sure I will learn lots of new stuff right
    here! Best of luck for the next!

  3. Howdy! I’m at work surfing around your blog from my new iphone 3gs!
    Just wanted to say I love reading your blog and look forward to all your posts!
    Carry on the outstanding work!

  4. When someone writes an paragraph he/she keeps the idea of a user in his/her
    brain that how a user can be aware of it. Thus that’s why this piece of
    writing is outstdanding. Thanks!

  5. Hi there superb website! Does running a blog like this require a lot of work?
    I’ve no knowledge of programming however I had been hoping to start my own blog in the near future.
    Anyway, if you have any suggestions or techniques for new blog owners please share.
    I know this is off topic however I simply had to ask.

    Many thanks!

  6. I’m impressed, I have to admit. Seldom do I encounter a blog
    that’s both equally educative and entertaining, and let me tell you, you have hit
    the nail on the head. The problem is something that not enough people are speaking intelligently about.
    I am very happy I came across this during my hunt
    for something concerning this.

  7. Hey there! I simply would like to give you a huge thumbs up for the great
    info you’ve got right here on this post. I’ll be returning to your site for more soon.

  8. Today, while I was at work, my sister stole my apple
    ipad and tested to see if it can survive a 25 foot drop, just so she
    can be a youtube sensation. My apple ipad is now broken and she
    has 83 views. I know this is entirely off topic but I had
    to share it with someone!

  9. My programmer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from PHP.
    I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses.
    But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using Movable-type on several websites for about a year and am anxious about switching
    to another platform. I have heard good things about
    Is there a way I can import all my wordpress content into it?
    Any kind of help would be greatly appreciated!

  10. When I originally commented I clicked the “Notify me when new comments are added” checkbox and now each time a
    comment is added I get several emails with the same comment.
    Is there any way you can remove people from that service?
    Thanks a lot!

  11. whoah this blog is excellent i love reading your posts. Keep up the good work! You know, a lot of people are hunting around for this information, you can aid them greatly.

  12. Its like you read my mind! You seem to know a lot about this,
    like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you could do with some
    pics to drive the message home a bit, but other
    than that, this is wonderful blog. A fantastic read.
    I will certainly be back.

  13. Hey I know this is off topic but I was wondering if you
    knew of any widgets I could add to my blog that automatically
    tweet my newest twitter updates. I’ve been looking for a plug-in like this
    for quite some time and was hoping maybe you would have some experience with something like this.
    Please let me know if you run into anything. I truly enjoy reading your blog and I look forward
    to your new updates.

  14. Howdy, I think your website might be having internet browser compatibility problems.

    Whenever I take a look at your website in Safari, it looks fine however, if opening
    in I.E., it has some overlapping issues.
    I merely wanted to provide you with a quick heads up! Apart from
    that, fantastic website!

  15. That is really interesting, You’re an excessively professional blogger. I have joined your feed and stay up for seeking more of your wonderful post. Additionally, I have shared your website in my social networks!

  16. Sweet blog! I found it while searching on Yahoo News. Do
    you have any suggestions on how to get listed in Yahoo News?
    I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there!
    Many thanks

  17. Have you ever considered publishing an e-book
    or guest authoring on other sites? I have a blog based
    on the same subjects you discuss and would love
    to have you share some stories/information. I know my readers would enjoy your work.
    If you are even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me
    an e mail.

  18. Hey there! Do you use Twitter? I’d like to follow you if that would
    be okay. I’m definitely enjoying your blog and look forward to new updates.

  19. I don’t know whether it’s just me or if everybody
    else experiencing problems with your blog. It looks like some of the text on your posts are running off the screen. Can someone
    else please provide feedback and let me know if this is happening to them as well?

    This might be a issue with my browser because I’ve had this
    happen previously. Thank you

  20. I’m curious to find out what blog platform you are utilizing?

    I’m experiencing some minor security problems with my latest
    site and I would like to find something more safeguarded. Do you have any

  21. An outstanding share! I’ve just forwarded this onto a friend who was
    doing a little homework on this. And he actually bought me lunch simply because I discovered it for
    him… lol. So allow me to reword this…. Thank YOU for the meal!!
    But yeah, thanks for spending the time to discuss this topic here on your internet site.

  22. Thanks , I have recently been searching for information approximately this topic for a
    while and yours is the greatest I have found out so far.
    But, what about the conclusion? Are you sure about the supply?

  23. You really make it appear really easy with your presentation however I find this matter to be really something which I feel I might never understand. It kind of feels too complicated and very vast for me. I am taking a look forward for your subsequent submit, I’ll attempt to get the dangle of it!

  24. Hello, Neat post. There’s an issue with your web site
    in web explorer, may test this? IE nonetheless is the marketplace leader and a huge element of folks will pass over your fantastic writing due to this problem.

  25. I got this web page from my pal who shared with me concerning this
    web site and at the moment this time I am visiting this web page and reading
    very informative content at this time.

  26. Somebody essentially lend a hand to make severely
    articles I’d state. That is the very first time
    I frequented your web page and up to now? I surprised with
    the research you made to make this actual put up extraordinary.
    Excellent activity!

  27. I’ve been exploring for a little for any high quality articles or blog posts on this sort of area .

    Exploring in Yahoo I ultimately stumbled upon this site.
    Reading this information So i’m satisfied to convey that I have an incredibly good uncanny
    feeling I discovered exactly what I needed. I such a lot surely will make certain to don?t fail
    to remember this web site and provides it a glance on a constant basis.

  28. Nice post. I learn something tougher on completely different blogs everyday. It would always be stimulating to learn content material from other writers and follow just a little something from their store. I’d prefer to use some with the content material on my blog whether or not you don’t mind. Natually I’ll provide you with a hyperlink on your net blog. Thanks for sharing.

  29. Have you ever considered creating an e-book or guest authoring on other websites?
    I have a blog centered on the same information you discuss and would love to have you
    share some stories/information. I know my viewers would appreciate your
    work. If you’re even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me an email.

  30. I believe that is one of the so much important info
    for me. And i’m glad reading your article. But should remark
    on some basic things, The web site style is perfect,
    the articles is truly great : D. Just right job, cheers

  31. Awesome blog! Is your theme custom made or did you download it from somewhere? A design like yours with a few simple tweeks would really make my blog jump out. Please let me know where you got your theme. Thanks

  32. Hey! I realize this is sort of off-topic but I needed to ask.
    Does managing a well-established website such as yours take a massive amount work?

    I am completely new to writing a blog however I do write
    in my journal on a daily basis. I’d like to start a blog so I can easily share
    my personal experience and feelings online. Please let me know if
    you have any kind of recommendations or tips for new
    aspiring blog owners. Appreciate it!

  33. I blog frequently and I really thank you for your information. Your article has really
    peaked my interest. I’m going to take a note of your website and keep checking for new information about once per week.
    I opted in for your RSS feed too.

  34. Hello! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any issues with hackers?

    My last blog (wordpress) was hacked and I ended up losing many months of hard work due to no backup.

    Do you have any solutions to prevent hackers?

  35. whoah this blog is wonderful i really like reading your posts.

    Stay up the good work! You know, many individuals are searching around for this info, you could aid them greatly.

  36. I’m impressed, I have to admit. Seldom do I come across a
    blog that’s both educative and amusing, and without a doubt, you’ve hit the
    nail on the head. The problem is an issue that too few folks are speaking intelligently about.

    I’m very happy that I stumbled across this during my search for something regarding this.

  37. hello!,I love your writing so a lot! share we be in contact extra approximately your post on AOL?
    I need a specialist on this space to solve
    my problem. Maybe that is you! Looking forward to peer you.

  38. Thanks for the marvelous posting! I genuinely enjoyed reading it, you may be a great
    author.I will make certain to bookmark your blog and will come back later on. I want to
    encourage you to definitely continue your great work, have
    a nice weekend!

  39. Good day! I could have sworn I’ve been to this website before but after
    checking through some of the post I realized it’s new to me.
    Nonetheless, I’m definitely delighted I found it and I’ll be bookmarking and checking back frequently!

  40. Appreciating the dedication you put into your site and in depth
    information you present. It’s great to come across a blog every
    once in a while that isn’t the same out of date rehashed material.
    Wonderful read! I’ve saved your site and I’m including your RSS feeds to my Google account.

  41. Hello I am so thrilled I found your website, I really found you
    by error, while I was looking on Yahoo for something else,
    Anyways I am here now and would just like to say kudos for a marvelous post and a all round exciting blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time to browse it all at the moment but I have
    book-marked it and also added in your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read a great deal
    more, Please do keep up the fantastic work.

  42. I was wondering if you ever thought of changing the
    structure of your blog? Its very well written; I love what youve got to say.
    But maybe you could a little more in the way of content so people could connect with it better.
    Youve got an awful lot of text for only having one or two pictures.
    Maybe you could space it out better?

  43. hey there and thank you for your info –
    I’ve definitely picked up something new from right here.

    I did however expertise several technical issues using this website,
    as I experienced to reload the site many times previous to I could get it to load correctly.
    I had been wondering if your web host is OK?

    Not that I am complaining, but sluggish loading instances times will
    often affect your placement in google and could damage your high
    quality score if advertising and marketing with Adwords.
    Anyway I’m adding this RSS to my e-mail and could look out for a lot more of your respective intriguing content.
    Ensure that you update this again soon.

  44. That is really attention-grabbing, You are
    a very professional blogger. I have joined your feed and look ahead to in quest
    of extra of your excellent post. Also, I have shared your site in my social networks

  45. It’s a pity you don’t have a donate button! I’d without a doubt donate to this excellent blog!
    I suppose for now i’ll settle for bookmarking and adding your RSS feed to my Google account.
    I look forward to fresh updates and will talk about this blog with my Facebook group.
    Talk soon!

  46. Howdy! I know this is kind of off topic but I was wondering which blog
    platform are you using for this site? I’m getting tired of WordPress because I’ve had problems with hackers and I’m looking at options
    for another platform. I would be great if you could point me in the direction of a
    good platform.

  47. Have you ever thought about including a little bit
    more than just your articles? I mean, what you say is
    important and all. Nevertheless imagine if you added some great visuals or
    videos to give your posts more, “pop”! Your content is excellent but with images and videos, this site could certainly be one of the very best in its niche.
    Awesome blog!

  48. Does your site have a contact page? I’m having problems locating it but, I’d like to
    send you an email. I’ve got some ideas for your blog you might be interested in hearing.
    Either way, great blog and I look forward to seeing it develop over time.

  49. Hey there this is kinda of off topic but I was wanting to know if blogs use WYSIWYG editors or if you have to manually code with HTML.
    I’m starting a blog soon but have no coding know-how so I
    wanted to get advice from someone with experience. Any help would be enormously appreciated!

  50. Hmm it seems like your website ate my first comment (it was extremely long)
    so I guess I’ll just sum it up what I had written and say,
    I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog. I too am an aspiring blog writer but
    I’m still new to the whole thing. Do you have any helpful hints
    for novice blog writers? I’d genuinely appreciate it.

  51. This is really interesting, You’re a very skilled blogger.
    I’ve joined your feed and look forward to seeking more of your great post.
    Also, I’ve shared your web site in my social networks!

  52. Excellent blog! Do you have any hints for aspiring writers?
    I’m planning to start my own site soon but I’m a little lost on everything.

    Would you suggest starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m totally confused ..
    Any recommendations? Thanks a lot!

  53. Hey I know this is off topic but I was wondering if you knew
    of any widgets I could add to my blog that automatically tweet my newest twitter updates.
    I’ve been looking for a plug-in like this for quite some time and was
    hoping maybe you would have some experience with something
    like this. Please let me know if you run into anything.
    I truly enjoy reading your blog and I look forward to your new updates.

  54. Hi, Neat post. There is an issue with your web site in internet
    explorer, may test this? IE still is the marketplace chief and a large component to folks will pass
    over your great writing because of this problem.

  55. You really make it appear really easy with your presentation however
    I in finding this topic to be really one thing that I feel I would
    never understand. It sort of feels too complicated and very huge for me.
    I am having a look ahead on your subsequent put up,
    I will try to get the cling of it!

  56. whoah this weblog is magnificent i like studying your posts.
    Keep up the good work! You realize, a lot of individuals are looking round for this information, you could
    help them greatly.

  57. Nice weblog right here! Additionally your site
    loads up fast! What web host are you the use of? Can I am getting your associate hyperlink in your host?
    I want my website loaded up as quickly as yours lol

  58. Hello my family member! I wish to say that this post is awesome, great written and come with approximately all vital infos.
    I would like to look extra posts like this .

  59. First of all I want to say wonderful blog! I had a quick question in which I’d like to ask if you do not mind.
    I was curious to know how you center yourself and clear
    your mind prior to writing. I’ve had a hard time clearing my mind in getting my ideas
    out there. I truly do take pleasure in writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes
    tend to be lost simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or hints?


  60. Hello would you mind letting me know which hosting company you’re utilizing?
    I’ve loaded your blog in 3 different internet browsers and I must say this
    blog loads a lot faster then most. Can you suggest
    a good internet hosting provider at a honest
    price? Kudos, I appreciate it!

  61. Tolu! Read some pieces on this blog and I must say you have your way with words. Very nice story; held me to the last character.
    Keep writing.
    Well done!

    Lots of love… and respect.

  62. Lol, I like this one. It is hardest to get the people that are closest to you to pay for your servicee or even value your work. Diji should have just given the guy ow. it’s called “sweat equity”.

    1. Hiya Nifty, yeah, I’m sure almost everyone can relate to this, either as a victim or as the exploiter. Thanks for reading and for the feedback 🙂

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.